Ruth Langsford has been adjusting to single life since her split from Eamonn Holmes.

The former couple announced their separation in May. Reports claim Eamonn has since moved on with Katie Alexander. However, neither have confirmed a romance.

For Vanessa, who endured her own very public split from fiancé Ben Ofoedu in early 2023 after a 16-year relationship, the idea of dating again simply feels exhausting. “I’ve been through betrayal, humiliation, the works,” she said. “When you get to a certain stage in life, you just think — do I really want to go through that again?

Do I want to sit across from another man pretending to be interested in his opinions about football? No, thank you.” Her trademark wit drew laughter from the audience, but beneath the humor was a clear message: she’s prioritizing peace over partnership. “There’s a freedom in not needing anyone’s approval,” she added. “I wake up in the morning and answer to myself. It’s glorious.”

While Ruth and Vanessa’s decision to forgo dating might sound final, both women admit they haven’t completely shut the door on love — just the pressure to find it. “If something magical happens one day, fine,” Ruth said with a shrug. “But I’m not looking. I’m not chasing.

I’m not trying to fill a void that isn’t there.” Vanessa agreed, adding, “Love should add to your life, not fix it. I’ve already got a full life. If someone comes along and fits into it naturally, wonderful. If not, I’ll be just as happy.”

Ruth, meanwhile, has been keeping lowkey about her relationship status. But now, a friend of hers has opened up about why Ruth might not be on the dating scene.

Vanessa Feltz shared an update on Ruth’s love life (Credit: Cover Images)
Ruth Langsford and Eamonn Holmes

Speaking to the MailOnline, This Morning regular Vanessa Feltz was asked if Ruth was her new “wing woman”.

Vanessa split from her partner, Ben Ofoedu, last year.

Ruth Langsford, who recently announced her separation from longtime husband and co-presenter Eamonn Holmes after 14 years of marriage, echoed Vanessa’s sentiments. Speaking candidly about the emotional toll of her breakup, Ruth admitted that she has no desire to jump back into the dating scene.

“People keep saying, ‘You’ll meet someone new!’ But honestly, I don’t want to,” she said. “I’ve had love. I’ve had companionship.

I’ve had a marriage. Now I just want peace, my friends, and my dogs.” She laughed, but the sincerity in her voice made it clear she meant every word. “I’m not bitter — just realistic. Relationships take work, and at this point, I’d rather put that energy into myself.”

The friendship between Vanessa and Ruth has become something of a lifeline for both women. Having bonded over decades in the entertainment industry — and now, over their shared experiences of heartbreak — they’ve developed a deep sense of solidarity. “We joke that we’re the ‘Single Sisters Society,’” Vanessa quipped.

“No drama, no stress, no compromising. Just two women who’ve decided to put themselves first.” Ruth nodded in agreement, adding that the pair often spend evenings together watching old movies, sharing a bottle of wine, and laughing about the absurdities of modern dating.

“We tried downloading one of those apps once just for fun,” Ruth said. “Five minutes later, we were in hysterics and deleted it. It’s not for us.”

Insiders close to the two stars say their stance reflects a growing trend among women in their 50s and 60s who are choosing self-contentment over romantic pursuit. “There’s a cultural shift happening,” one media analyst explained. “For generations, women were taught to measure happiness by relationships.

Now, we’re seeing powerful, successful women like Vanessa and Ruth redefine that narrative. They’re showing that being single isn’t something to pity — it’s something to celebrate.”

Fans have certainly responded in kind. Social media has been flooded with supportive messages from women praising the duo for their honesty. “Vanessa and Ruth are speaking for all of us,” one fan wrote on Instagram. “It’s so liberating to hear two women say they’re happy alone.”

We’d probably rather go out together and have a laugh and leave men out of it.

The TV star said: “I don’t know if either of us can be bothered. We’d probably rather go out together and have a laugh and leave men out of it.”

When asked if she has plans to get back into dating, Vanessa added: “Oh mate, God’s sake, I don’t know. I’m trying my best, just put it that way. I’ve dip-toed in the field and we’ll see what happens.”

Eamonn and Ruth announced their split earlier this year (Credit: Cover Images)
Ruth and Eamonn announced their split in May. They share son Jack, born in 2002.

Last month, a report claimed that Ruth was worried about Jack.

But while both presenters are embracing their independence, that doesn’t mean the road has been easy. Vanessa has spoken openly about the pain of discovering her ex’s infidelity and the long process of rebuilding her confidence. “There were days when I thought I’d never smile again,” she admitted.

“Then I realized I was giving too much power to someone who didn’t deserve it. The moment I let go of the bitterness, I got my sparkle back.” Ruth, too, has faced public scrutiny since news of her separation broke earlier this year.

Despite the headlines, she’s remained poised and professional, continuing her hosting duties on Loose Women and QVC. “Work has been my anchor,” she said. “When everything else feels uncertain, showing up and doing what I love reminds me who I am.”

Vanessa’s resilience, meanwhile, has inspired countless viewers. Known for her quick wit and emotional intelligence, she’s turned her heartbreak into something empowering. “I’m not ashamed of being single,” she said. “I’m proud.

It means I’ve survived. I’ve loved deeply, been hurt badly, and I’m still standing. That’s something to celebrate.” Her words have made her a voice for middle-aged women navigating life after betrayal — a role she embraces wholeheartedly. “If I can make one woman out there feel less alone, then I’ve done my job,” she said during her BBC Radio London show.

In a heartfelt interview with Woman & Home recently, Loose Women star Ruth expressed that she wants “happiness” for her son.

She said: “When you have children, you look at them starting out in life and just want everything to be good for them, for them to be happy and to not have their hearts broken. You can’t guarantee any of that, but that’s what I want most for Jack.”

Ruth is seemingly single (Credit: SplashNews.com)
Ruth Langsford son

Sources close to Ruth revealed that Jack’s wellbeing has become her predominant focus.

A source shared with OK! Magazine: “Ruth has been keeping her head down since she and Eamonn split, and her main focus is always on Jack. She just wants to protect him and put his happiness first as they navigate this next chapter.

“Ruth admitted recently that she never wants Jack’s heart to get broken – this is her way of saying she’s still hurting and never wants her children to go through the pain she has. Happiness is all she’s ever wanted and she’s still hurting.”

It was a revelation that caught fans off guard — and yet, it was delivered with the kind of blunt honesty that has made Vanessa Feltz one of Britain’s most refreshingly candid personalities.

Sitting down for a recent interview alongside her close friend Ruth Langsford, the veteran broadcaster opened up about her post-breakup life, her views on love, and the surprising decision both women have made in the wake of Ruth’s high-profile split from Eamonn Holmes.

“Ruth and I can’t be bothered with dating anymore,” Vanessa declared with a wry smile. “We’ve done the heartbreak, the drama, the disappointment — and quite frankly, we’re over it.” Her words have since set social media ablaze, resonating with women everywhere who see themselves in the stars’ newfound embrace of independence.

Friends say the duo’s unfiltered approach to relationships has been “cathartic” — both personally and professionally. “They’re showing their audience that it’s okay to step off the treadmill of expectation,” one insider shared. “They’ve both been through so much, and instead of letting it define them, they’re redefining what happiness looks like.”

Indeed, both women have been busier than ever. Vanessa continues to host her radio show and appear on talk programs, while Ruth is expanding her fashion brand and focusing on health and wellness projects. “We’re thriving,” Vanessa said proudly. “Single, successful, and surrounded by love — just not the romantic kind.”

For two women who’ve spent their careers under the spotlight — their private lives dissected and debated — this new chapter feels like a well-earned reprieve. “We’ve both cried our tears,” Ruth reflected.

“Now it’s about laughter, friendship, and freedom. That’s what matters.” Vanessa nodded in agreement, summing it up perfectly: “We’re not anti-love. We’re just pro-self. There’s a big difference.”

As the cameras wrapped and the conversation wound down, it was clear that neither Vanessa nor Ruth views their singlehood as an ending — but rather, a beginning. A beginning defined by self-assurance, self-respect, and a refreshing refusal to conform to outdated expectations.

In a world obsessed with coupling up, they’ve chosen something far more radical: to be content, to be complete, and to be unapologetically themselves. And judging by the wave of support they’ve received, they’re far from alone in that choice.